FirstAffair

FirstAffair describes itself on its home page as “casual dating site”, and is aimed at individuals and couples who are looking for a “relationship or simply an erotic experience”. The style of the website is simple, yet rather luxurious. Members are not allowed to post explicit photos, and there is no hard-sell advertising, no flashing banners. For those who are put off by the garish hard-core porn imagery of many dating websites, this site is very appealing. Having said that, the emphasis here is definitely on casual sexual encounters, rather than long-term relationships. Perhaps as a result of its sexy, sophisticated approach, FirstAffair attracts more women than most dating sites, and so there is a much more balanced ratio of women to men. FirstAffair is available in several different languages. The majority of its members are in Germany and France, but it is currently attracting increasing numbers of casual daters in the USA and the UK. As with most casual dating websites, you can join anonymously. Registration is easy, and while it is a pay site, you can often avail of free trial membership offers. To join, you simply provide a screen name, password and email address. You’re then asked to provide some details about your appearance, hobbies, interests and the type of person you’re looking for. At that point you gain access to the site and can start to play around with the various features. These are pretty standard and easy to use. You can post public or private photos or yourself – public photos are visible to anyone, while private photos can only be seen by “trusted persons”. It’s up to you to decide who is “trusted” or not. You can perform different types of searches, save lists of favourites, exchange mail, and use the site’s instant chat facility. In addition, you can call other members securely without revealing your phone number using the site’s secure calling facility. The functionality of FirstAffair is pretty standard, but for many people – and perhaps more especially women – the site has a strong appeal because of its more subtle approach. This is a site that will attract anyone, of any age, who is looking for casual sex without the sleaze.